5 TIPS ON HOW TO GET OVER HIM

Hello lovelies,

Today I wanted to share with you some tips that have helped me get over someone. Hopefully they help you too! 

1) STAY BUSY

Being busy is the best way to make sure you aren’t thinking about someone irrelevant. Now is the time to fully immerse yourself in school, work, or personal projects that you have been postponing for a while. Plus, being actually busy with things that enrich your life means that you’re helping your future self, and that’s a great thig!

2) DON’T CHECK UP ON THEM

In my experience the best thing to do after an ugly breakup is to disassociate yourself from that person. This means deleting/blocking them on social media, deleting their number,etc. By doing this, you’ll eliminate the desire of wanting to call/text them or go through their feed-trust me you’re doing yourself a favor. It may seem tough, but it’s best to just bite the bullet. 

3) GO OUT 

Say yes to outings you would usually skip out on. Go out with your friends more and enjoy yourself. Alot of time in relationships (especially new ones)people tend to neglect their friends in order to spend more time with their partner. Going to dinner and reconnecting with your friends can be just what the doctor ordered for a time like this. Smiling/laughing and having a chat with your friends can really take your mind off things and make you realize that life goes on. 

4) DONT SUGAR COAT THINGS 

Often after a breakup, people want to remember all the good times and good qualities about their ex, while forgetting the reason they broke up. Chances are, there are actually a decent amount of qualities/issues you have with that person, but you are not acknowledging or have been giving them the benefit of the doubt. Getting into those negative attributes can really help you see that the breakup was for the best, and you are better off without said person. 

5) DONT WALLOW IN YOUR GRIEF 

Of course it’s important to mourn the relationship, and depending on the nature and time period of the relationship, the mourning period will vary. However, in my experience it’s best to limit the “mourning period ” to a week maximum. Any more than that and you can end up feeling very down and depressed about life in general, which is counter-productive to getting back on the metaphorical horse that is life. 

Feel free to share your tips below. And always remember, your worth is not dependent on any relationship-your value lies within yourself. 

Tutu xx

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10 Comments Add yours

  1. You gave very good tipsπŸ˜€

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  2. The five points are real good advice! I’d like to add a number 6 if I may. I have a great friend who keeps committing to strong relationships she ends up leaving ’cause they’re not good for her. I often tell her that if she walks the same paths and takes the same steps each time, she’ll end up in the same profile relationship. Understand yourself. Go out and explore new things you thought would never be for you and get away from that old environment that keeps throwing the same profile at you time and time again. Thanks Tutistales for sharing your wisdom here.

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  3. blackunicornnz says:

    SLAYED.
    Even though i didnt go through a breakup, but i have a massive crush on someone i shouldnt have.
    So this post is everything ❀

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    1. tutistales says:

      Thank you πŸ’œ I hope this post helped you! xx

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  4. Silksache't says:

    you should make this into a brochure of some kind…women really need this…love it

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    1. tutistales says:

      Thank you for the feedback πŸ’œβœ¨

      Like

    2. tutistales says:

      If you ever need advice, drop me an email at tasotidbits@gmail.com. I’m doing an advice corner on the blog, and it will be anonymous πŸ™‚

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  5. Hi! Nice post and you have a great blog! πŸ™‚

    I have nominated you for The Real Neat Award Blog, details are here in blog: https://munirachowdhury.wordpress.com/2016/11/29/real-neat-blog-award/

    Have a good day, bye! ❀

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    1. tutistales says:

      So nice of you, thank you πŸ’œ

      Liked by 1 person

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